I went a bit of a different way than you are wanting to go, but I will let you know what I did/found.
I bought a whole whack of LEDs off ebay from China. They were like $3 for 100 or something crazy. I got white and red. I then did some research on resistors and bought 1000 of various for like $5. After all of this I found that you can buy pre soldered LEDs with resistors for about the same price. I felt stupid, but ah well, now I have a ton of LEDs.
I am not going with a 2 stage lighting system like you are describing. For $50 you can buy a universal sequential module off ebay so I bought 4 of them to mess around with. The instructions are terrible but with some trial and error I got them working. Same as mustangs.
So overall I have premade 12V LEDs and sequential taillight modules. I have tested it out and so far it has never blown. My front signals are LEDs also. I understand what others are saying about a minimum brightness and it would suck if my lights all blew randomly but if that happens I'll deal with it. I am considering leaving the normal bulbs hooked up hidden in the trunk and splicing off the circuit. I read somewhere that people have problems with the signals with LEDs and have to get different flasher/strobe module thingy. I haven't but I spliced anyway for the option. I've also read Department of Transport stuff and all it states is that the lights on the car must be red, white, or yellow. I'm sure there are technical specs somewhere but I can't find them, and the LEDs and HID headlights on my car are better than my truck, so I'm not worried. Bright like the sun!